Powerful Tools for Caregivers

“Powerful Tools for Caregivers” is an educational series designed to provide family caregivers with tools needed to take care of themselves while caring for others. Classes consist of interactive sessions, discussions and brainstorming to help participants take the “tools” they choose and put them into action in their lives.

We will email you Zoom login details when the time comes. Class is 6 weeks with sessions from 1pm to 3pm every Wednesday starting March 1st 2023 and ending on April 5th 2023. We ask that you be able to commit to all 6 weeks of instruction as each session builds upon the skills learned in the previous sessions.

Call 360-664-3162 ext 253. Online registration coming soon.

Class #1: Taking Care of You
This class sets the stage for the entire course. It emphasizes that the focus is on “YOU, the caregiver, not on the family member receiving care,” and that caregivers will develop a “box of self-care tools.” The challenges of caregiving and significance of caregiver self-care are dramatized through a video. Beginning in this class, caregivers make a weekly action plan for self-care. 
 

Class #2: Identifying and Reducing Personal Stress 
Four steps are presented for effective stress management: (1) Identifying early warning signs, (2) Identifying personal sources of stress, (3) Changing what you can change and accepting what you cannot change, and (4) Taking action. Tools to reduce stress are discussed. Participants learn how to change negative self-talk – which increases stress and erodes confidence – to positive self-talk. Beginning in this class, caregivers learn five relaxation activities that are easy to incorporate into their daily lives. 
 

Class #3: Communicating Feelings, Needs, and Concerns
Participants learn how to communicate their feelings, needs and concerns more effectively by using “I” messages. Through brief dramatizations, participants experience the impact of both “I” messages and “You” messages (which tend to sound blaming and put people on the defensive). They practice changing “You” messages to “I” messages, and identifying when statements beginning with the word “I” are actually “Hidden You” messages. 
 

Class #4: Communicating in Challenging Situations 
Participants practice two communication tools – assertiveness and Aikido – which are helpful in difficult situations. They learn a four-step process, called DESC (Describe, Express, Specify, and Consequence) for using the assertive style of communication. With Aikido, participants learn how to align and find “common ground” with a person who is distressed. A segment highlights guidelines for communicating with a person who is memory impaired. 
 

Class #5: Learning From Our Emotions 
The overriding theme of this class is “our emotions are messages we need to listen to.” It emphasizes that feelings occur for a reason and that feelings are neither good nor bad. Focus is on identifying constructive ways for dealing with difficult feelings – especially anger, guilt, and depression – and resources for professional help. 
 

Class #6: Mastering Caregiving Decisions 
Focus is on the internal emotional process caregivers go through when they experience a life change. Tools for dealing with changes and for making tough decisions – including a seven-step decision-making model and the family meeting – are discussed.

Space is limited. 

Call 360-664-3162 ext 253